She knew what it felt like to want that and not be able to. Genevieve, Holly  February 23, 2016 at 10:33 pm Reply. Most of all, I wish you peace… in your life & in your heart. But I don’t know how I’m going to get through this. The loneliness at times is unbearable. I stayed those 4 days and nights with her in hospital advocating for her medication treatment to ensure her a comfortable dying process yet she still suffered because the staff there would not listen to me and instead of giving her strong meds immediately it took a little more than half of those 4 days until she started calming down & feeling comfortable as my continuing battle with the medical team finally listened to me. It was a horrible, unexpected death from the flu complicated because he also had diabetes. Here, you will find a select collection of comforting, inspirational poems about death, grief, and loss. My grandson’s was two days ago. It’s not just about the words of course. and everytime i close my eyes i see him walking up to me and hugging me like he used to do and there are times that it gets so hard to live without him and i just lock myself in my room because i miss him so much. I will not kill myself, but each day I go through is a day without my son and it feels pointless. I cannot find a happy place even though I should be the happiest mother out there for I have all five of my babies still but this has been a bit much and now my heart is giving up on me.. or is it me giving up i don’t know how to crawl out of this i wish i can wake up and it will all be over and be the happy momma i need to be.. thank u all for your sharing as i see I’m not alone in this dark cloud . Today is the first anniversary of my ex-husband’s death. The grieving for them was a suffering that slowly took them. I begged her not to get treatment (13 years of nurse-I see strong positive minds make it longer and more comfortable) Being very religious and having a spouse and 3 children- they scared her they told her she would only make it 3 months without 5 with. I walked the country fields and city streets endlessly, talking to her spirit. It’s best to stop talking to them about your son and save it for a counselor. My partner, who was all my joy and all my delight, gone. © 2020 by Tango Media Corporation All Rights Reserved. I had forgotten how much a person can cry. Thanks for your words of comfort. I am so terribly sorry for the tragedy and grief you have experienced. Sometimes. Although you may not understand the pain I go through. I read so many comments here about difficulty moving on from a death and it pains my heart. !..then comes up a search list of related sites & what have yous..etc etc. I have a hole in my soul over the loss of my mom, but I want her memory to be actively moving me toward filling holes that I can fill. I am on meds. I know I will be with my lost loves one day and if they actually do see me grieving why can’t I feel them? she left at the worst time as I had lost my dad. Tayler  August 20, 2016 at 7:36 pm Reply. Its ok for the steps to be small. He’s missed by everyone. My mother-in-law died tragically 4 months ago and everyday seems to get worse. The Internet just seemed plastered with inspirational platitudes pasted on pictures of sunsets and rainbows. Joe Lawrence Maniha  October 19, 2018 at 5:46 pm Reply. I have 5 children from ages 27 to 9 and I feel so helpless with them I have been in a dark cloud I can’t seem to find my out of.. I feel so lost as she was who I could talk to about my husband . It’s very hard to try and grieve in front of him. Again thank you & God bless you and your mom. I haven’t been happy sense. I have no desire to live another day let alone go to the store. I wonder what the present would be like if they were here – what we might have done together. How do I get them back? I went home to be his nurse for a few months. The hardest part is that we will miss them, but in time. Kennyposh  June 10, 2018 at 5:30 am Reply. She looked so peaceful as she must have known it was finally going to be done. So many holes in the story-it wouldn’t have happened had I been there. My heart taught my baby’s heart how to beat… it was in complete rythem of my own and when his stopped a piece of mine stopped with his and that piece hurts and pains me every minute of every day… a pain of which I have learned to bare alone. If I’m speaking to anyone who has lost a child no matter what age you know what I mean. Don’t give up. My husband was killed by a stranger just 4 years ago so suicide for me is not an option as that would further traumatize my son so my only way out of this life is by God’s hands which is the hands if fate. Now the world looks sad & lonely & my future seems bleak without her. I did get to see her one last time, unlike my husband. I feel selfish to hate that she left me. Tears are falling from reading everyone’s quote, I lost my son in law 4 years ago to suicide, stabbing himself over 100 times, he left behind my 2 granddaughters age 5 and 9.. they still mourn , the youngest granddaughter apologizes to her mom over and over again.. and as for my daughter she lost her first boyfriend to a homicide and then her husband to suicide.. the pain I feel with standing behind my daughter and granddaughters, I still cry, it seems as if it will never ever get easier.. Rose Marie VanDee  April 11, 2018 at 11:58 pm Reply. I write just this once, in letting my dear beloved small sister’s spirit know that, I still miss you very much Mummy Pao’..My Princess..My Queen, Paula Gene Arina’so. She deserved the world. “Iodine”, Shubham Chaturvedi  June 18, 2016 at 5:52 pm Reply. Just the thought of having to face another day and try to continue to work so I can have a roof over my head fills me with fear and dread. We have no cause of death as yet likely sudden cardiac but the knowledge of being with him that whole day & then him dying when I went to work on his own haunts me. The day after that I must go to my mom’s apartment to start making arrangements of packing up her things and bringing her pet fish home with me and i have 2 cats at my place that need to be kept from the fish tank. We all grieve differently and sometimes, encouraging grief quotes can help us with loss. I lost my husband in a mountain accident 3 years ago. I said I was leaving school soon and we would see her at the hospital. I suspect he felt he’d been unkind to her regarding her recent failings though he never said so to me. I have nightmares of her trying to make it out like she did. Georgia Geisler  October 21, 2017 at 9:40 pm Reply. Then I made it a year and met someone that reminded me of my love-I met him at a psychiatrists office. I didn’t even get a chance to process it becuase he died very fast. I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in anyway I can. I have a book now in making which requires me to sample ideas of scholars like you. The reverend becomes livid with anger and delivers a sermon that offends people in the town. She was taken to a better place at 10 pm that night. Hi Zina. We were both widowed and our first marriages were not very happy ones. Anger, hopelessness, numbness and always the pain…the pain. I spoke with him at least 3 times a day… he was Mamma’s boy… and for the first year I would watch my phone waiting for him to call. Thank you for reminding others that animals can be just as loved and loving. I feel your pain. Oh Melissa, your story resonates so with me, but the other way around. I am so lost and facing a future stolen without my husband, but there are good days – the kids and my dogs provide most of these – they make me smile. It all seemed so trite and reductive we decided not to add to the noise. I lost my Husband two days before my birthday on the 08/06/2017, it happened so suddenly I miss Him like grazy and know will ever replace Him. You’re in my prayers. Bridget Aiken  June 10, 2019 at 10:28 pm Reply. I’ve lost friends because I don’t always handle my grief well; can’t always anticipate when its going to punch me between the eyes again. 94. She always called me “Prince”…”My King”…”Daddy”…never my name, never. They can also be a way to reach out to someone you know who is grieving. I don’t know were I run half the time. We pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief. Plus, to make things so much worse, the juniors in my school are making a float to be a memorial for him for homecoming. What was the point of anything. Now, I’m just lost. My husband died on May 27, 2016. I lost my husband if 36 years on 7/22/17. It breaks your heart and soul. Keep your head up sweetie. Before I was able to live and work and survive but now I feel alone without strength. We were told by the doctor just 6 days ago that her test results showed she had stage 4 rectal cancer which had spread to both lungs, lymph nodes & stomach. I will pray for you. Geneviève, Laraine  September 14, 2017 at 2:05 am Reply, Hello Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss and my heart truly breaks for you. She was my closest confident and I was also her carer. I was writing my college essay about maturity and how loss contributes to it and looking up quotes for it, I probably won’t use any of these, but thank you for your post, it helped me see that grief may always be present in a persons heart but it doesn’t have to be the only feeling. Laughing with him. It is as if saying “SO WHAT IF MY SON IS GONE, FOR IN HIS MEMORY HUNDREDS WILL LIVE ON”. Animals have souls too and they are also capable of love. The different I WANT is to drive to him after the service. So why was he killed? Is that wierd? Yes lots of feelings can co-exist, some time I even feel I am just free! Currently, I grieve my brother-in-law, but more painful is witnessing the pain my sister and her children are going through in his loss. Less than two years later, my mother died of cancer, my father in his heartache suffered a heart attack and followed my mom soon after. Grief Counseling is a type of Psychotherapy used to help children and adults cope with loss following major life events. The stress was off the charts. Kim Singleton  May 8, 2018 at 7:22 pm Reply. charlotte mari  July 20, 2018 at 1:27 pm Reply. http://www.horatiointhewind.com, Iyyanna  February 21, 2019 at 11:43 pm Reply, I lost husband in July of 2017… we,were only married a year n was shot and killed because of mistaken identity… I haven’t been able to get myself back on track… no it hasn’t gotten better or made any sense I couldn’t go to the funeral I couldn’t even leave the house for almost 2 months… I regret not saying a final goodbye at gus funeral n I’m stuck our kids miss him too but they keep reminding me that I’m still here and they need me…. Not sure I will ever forgive myself. My kitty showed me more comfort & support than the people who were around me right after my mom passed. May God bless u all and may all see the light at the end of the tunnel . I don’t understand it myself.” I continued on with the service, knowing that even after the service would end, I would not be able to go see him because of not having my car. So i guess, I’ll be writing just this once on this beautiful commentary site of wyg, but for what ever relief I find, I Hope & Pray that all you hurting, grieving, beautiful Souls out there, embrace grief. We still made each other laugh after 16 plus years of marriage. I’m almost 20 years older, already broken. But the different I WANT can’t happen. Required fields are marked *. But I guess there is some comfort, because I am no longer afraid of dying myself, just in case there is an After. We've arranged the synonyms in length order so that they are easier to find. He went out lots. It is so sad to think a life passed and so much hurt and regret and endless questions still exist. Using the word generator and word unscrambler for the letters G R I E F, we unscrambled the letters to create a list of all the words found in Scrabble, Words with Friends, and Text Twist. The overwhelming sense of grief is surpassed by the intense sadness I feel about his unhappy life . Another word for grief. Six months later, my super-healthy, ex international athlete, sharp, hardworking, dignified, brave and talented dad was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. I'm sorry. The next day he was found dead by his best friend, who was also his landlord. We were both experiencing the same medical problems and both diagnosed with cancer within 2 days of each other. Jan 18, 2014 - Explore T R's board "Saying goodbye ( grief and loss quotes )", followed by 129 people on Pinterest. Thank you for sharing your story here and I hope you don’t mind me sharing with you my story. We both thought we were not patients. People sometimes take me for fifteen years or so less and I am fit and healthy and slim and up to my virtues still had modeling offers so I’m not old, old; yet I am. “THERE IS SO MUCH TO DO IN THIS WORLD AND SO MUCH TO LOOSE IF IT IS NOT DONE”. Missing my husband. The words of Keanu Reeves have helped me many times when I feel overwhelmed: “Grief changes shape, but it never ends. With the loss of my son went also a total loss of my belief system. I’m one class away from applying and I’m just stuck. She looked happy most of the time, chatting and joking. My mom died May 6th of this year. I thought that I could love him enough to make it better. Tonight I have to go and play piano for that SAME Good Friday service. My children and her children were always together. All i feel like doing is dying too so I can join her. I have no mother, father, sister, brother (I never had), child (I never had), husband or partner. I feel like my life is slow motion and dream like. Lost my soul mate to a sudden death age 35 – miss him beyond words I wouldn’t wish this type of pain on anyone I feel broken in two. My lovely sister, who was all my soul. It has been a difficult journey. I don’t understand it myself.” I continued on with the service, knowing that even after the service would end, I would not be able to go see him because of not having my car. Thank you for your post. Tell them that they must all keep their brothers memory alive and put your pain and loss in an imaginary box and put it on a shelf. I am devastated and still in shock by the fact she had stage 4 cancer let alone her death today after only 6 days. See more ideas about grief, quotes, loss quotes. He’s driven me crazy and filled me with pride and joy. The man I was referring to is still around and still in love with me but I am not fully ready yet, still need a lot of time on my own or with friends, trying to sort my internal mess out. I fear the grief for loss of one of his only two daughters must have precipitated the illness. 95. The bond of love will bring us together again! At times I feel like joining him and find no reason to go on. I talk to people. After her incomprehensible death I had much to do so soldiered on, as you do, shell shocked, in deep inconsolable, endless anguish. I honestly don’t know how to function. People have a misconception that … I still grieve my brother and parents everyday. ... You have managed to put into words the grieving process I went through when I lost my parents...most of all you have shown that there is a light... Read complete story. But I will, I have no choice. I lost my brother to suicide. His glasses were under the couch. He was my stepson, but I’d raised him since 18 months old. I need my children. I have never recovered. There was no reason to go anywhere as there was nobody to tell afterwards. He was on his back. Furniture was knocked over in the living room; a small bookcase. Words of Comfort For Sympathy Here are some tips and ideas so that you can write words of comfort in your sympathy cards and letters when someone has died. Priscella Valles  May 26, 2019 at 6:03 am, Hi I’m just now reading these sad but beautiful letters to who knows .. my heart is broken into pieces last year in Jan my middle child tried her hardest to commit suicide at 14 yrs old . I’m still going through denial and my life will never be the same with out him. I can not even start to understand your pain. The Right Words of Comfort for Someone Grieving. But now, she was going down. Although we love a good grief quote, Litsa and I were slow to join in on the quote-pic phenomenon. Good luck on your journey Kay. Sadly,he was an alcoholic. He has never allowed himself to process it. Again, I had to organise all the funeral (which was unbelievably beautiful) and paperwork and admin. Oddly, a few months before all this she’d increasingly started to intermittently say “I’m gonna die”, or “I wanna die”. Its a hard one to cope with but things will ease, be gentle on yourself and realise that these things take time. there is nothing wrong with people who empathize. I just need to get month old thank you cards finished to our overwhelmingly loving community. I will not be OK again. I didn’t get to see her because she lives with her father. Jodi  September 9, 2018 at 4:48 pm Reply. DM REYN0  November 9, 2018 at 3:28 pm Reply. I’m so sorry for your loss Kay. Some places even have specific groups for the loss of a child. I just plain miss my boy. We all know that all life comes to an end. Humanity & how we bond in such compelling overtures in our live’s passing phases (joy, laughter, tears, pain, anger, love, Life & death) – it’s such an underrated, unexplained testimony to how Truly majestic Our Heavenly Father, God Almighty the Creator has masterfully interlaced us all thru such Soulful reflections. I estimated two years, after which time, as her orientation and awareness grew worse, where she was located might matter less. But there is no such man; for, brother, men Can counsel and speak comfort to that grief Which they themselves not feel; but, tasting it, 25 Their counsel turns to passion, which before Would give preceptial medicine to rage, Fetter strong madness in a silken thread, Charm ache with air and agony with words. We were married for 10 years and I miss him more and more everyday. I lost a good friend to alcoholism a year and a half ago, since that day I have seen his family come undone. No one would understand this. Shirley Enebrad  January 24, 2020 at 2:53 pm Reply, I remember my friend Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’ quote as, “Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings.”, Susan Dryden Henderson  January 22, 2020 at 10:48 pm Reply. I need to see you in person pls just give me a chance ?? I can’t see how anybody would be offering to replace them but even if they did I doubt they would do. You are gone for now but not forever. Sorry about your loose. I need to go on for my children, although it’s hard, that’s an understatement, I will go on for them. On arrival at the hospital I explained she needed rehydration and antibiotics and bowel evacuation and whilst they took an age to get it done it was like watering a plant. 1 week before she passed. Dunno what hit me or “triggered” my subconscious to actually type in this lo-o-ng search words/line on google: “quotes of feelings on losing someone special”…blah! John Holland  January 7, 2020 at 5:12 am Reply. The best protine sames include the lean ones – egg whites, lean meat, turkey, chicken, and fish. Are you still in contact with anyone on her side of the family that could help you communicate with her? People with whom I strike up acquaintance seem to lack the depth, the gravitas, the soul or spirit I need to feel any satisfaction in their company. Even though she made mistakes when you were little it didn’t mean she didn’t love you. After I was adopted she stopped visiting,writing, or keeping any contact at all. I’ve wondered why it happened ever since it occurred. She was my closest confident and I was also her carer. Smile at a newly budding rose..its a spiritual thing ~ for there is bound to be something they touched, a silly remark/expression they say about your nose, ear, smile, eyes..something unusually unique & theirs alone, that they left behind that makes you put on a silent smile, every once in a awhile. I’m sending you a lot of love and courage all the way from Switzerland. Sunny Aman  May 26, 2017 at 5:45 am Reply. Want so much to dream with them but can’t seem to or don’t remember if I did. Dr. Beth Hewett understands the pain and anguish of grief all too well: in recent years, Beth has lost her brother, sister, both parents, and in-laws. I’ve read several books on how to make sense of your grief but at times it just seems so unbearable because I fall backwards. Your story … is my story… and reading your words is like reading my mind. It was as if I was thrown off the planet and forgotten by her. I’m exhausted from hurting. God bless u all. You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am a freshman and over the summer my cousin/best friend committed suicide and every night i cry about it. 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